I say this with love and respect: 21 is way too young to be married. Your brain and personality haven’t even finished developing (in men it happens around 25, women around 23, depending on what study you read), and you don’t really know what you want out of your life.
I’m 44 in a few weeks, and I honestly feel like my life is just starting. There’s no need to rush into something because an old societal expectation from the early 20th century refuses to go away.
I FUCKING LOVE WIL WHEATON!!! YOUNG PEOPLE ON MY DASH PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS MAN!!! IF I HAD MARRIED WHO I WAS WITH AT 21 I WOULD HONESTLY BE DEAD RIGHT NOW!!!