the most important thing to me ever is bi kids knowing that it’s ok to be 10% attracted to women and 90% attracted to men or 10% attracted to men and 90% attracted to women and still feeling ok to identify as bi, and still feeling like their identity is valid, and still feeling like they can lead fulfilling lives with both (or other) genders. like that’s just so fricking important.
I’m a bi adult and you know what? I needed this. Thank you.
it’s also important to remember that it can be a fluid % like sometimes it’ll be 50/50 some times 10/90 and then drift into a 45/65 or even 2/98 and it’s still okay. It’s just where you are at that time in your life.
One of those things that you can know all your life, but it’s still so so good to hear 💙💜❤️
i am consistently 60/40 (guy vs girl ratio)
I’m 80/20 girls to guys ratio
I struggle with this every fucking day and this post makes me so happy.
Seriously guys there’s no ratio you need to live up to to qualify. I’m pansexual, grew up thinking I was bisexual, and there have been plenty of times I couldn’t stand even looking at a guy, let alone touching him, and yet I didn’t label myself as a lesbian just because I spent a week or two at 100/0. I’m pansexual no matter what I’m into at the moment.
You’re valid 🙂